Browse our members in California
The best way to see if we're the dating site for you is to try us out for free. The form up ☝️there only takes a moment to complete and is completely free. If you're not ready for that, then browse some of our current California based members here. We've collected a selection of our users to make it easier for you to see who you could be meeting and what they are interested in.
Adult dating and casual encounters in California, USA
Fancy some no strings fun or maybe a bit on the side? Adult dating is the quickest and most convenient way to meet other people with a similar outlook on life, who enjoy sex and the thrill that comes from meeting strangers online. Mybedoryours.com is an adult dating communities with satisfied members.
Adult dating is the same concept as "conventional" online dating. The only difference is what the users aim to get out of the relationships they form. Our members generally do not want to be tied down (tied up, maybe) or restricted to one sexual partner. Our members are generally looking for more casual relationships or one night stands. Often these casual rendezvous turn into a fuck buddy type arrangement but if you are here looking for the love of your life, romance and flowers, you are definitely in the wrong place. If you are easily offended, you are also probably in the wrong place. Many of our members posts and share some pretty explicit photos and videos which are not censored in any way so if you think you will be offended by content of this nature, please leave now.
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My Bed Or Yours Members Around California
A loving and understanding mistress that's always available for you

What am I looking for? Looks, background and age are not as important as finding someone who is honest, kind and tender, who is full of life and loves to smile and laugh. I am looking for someone who can be an equal partner in a life together. With an equal partner, the joys are twice as good, and the sorrows half as bad!!

I am very open and really interested in serious and worthy one who knows that their rightful place is under my feet, to worship my body, ass and feet.

I'm 38 years old, living in the Plant City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 23 and 99.

I'm 46 years old, living in the San Jose region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 65.

looking at me, you probably think 'escort, prostitution or lesbian, how can she be lonely and look for a man?' Well, you almost guessed it, I'm all taken together LOL, a joke! this is the whole essence of the problem of my search for a husband, I have always been perceived as another person, I am not what you see in the picture, I have something more important than my beautiful body parts, this is my soul! although I can and want to be the best escort for my husband LOL oh yeah. I would like you not only to stare at my tits, but also to look into my eyes sometimes, I appreciate that in men if anything, I don't need a millionaire man, I will be happy with a man with his care and love and most importantly in his submission to my desires and fantasies, spiritual values and things are much more important than material ones.

Life is too short for inhibitions, right? I'm all about living in the moment and making the most of life's offerings.

I'm 37 years old, living in the California City region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 99.

Ask me anything you wanna know about me ok, I am here to treat you like a King

I want to meet a sub who is willing to submit to me as his mistress play with my body and satisfy me xxxly. Matured minds

I like real things; I like honesty, truthful, caring and obedient person I dislikes dramas, cheating, lies, disrespect and racist..I want someone that will love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language barrier, cultural differences and all that. Because I do believe love knows no barriers and is the conqueror of it all and all things.

Cruel and professional Mistress I was trained in the old and professional way.

Am Kelly,I have great respect for great men.I try to treat him tenderly and with kindness. All I have ever wanted in life is to be with a man who I am attracted to and he is attracted to me You can get me on together we both can make hoping we can share some love and get to know each other,

Being very submissive to my satisfaction is important to me with lots of pleasures

I am Mistress Elaine and I have my dungeon ready for serious subs only.

Ask me and I would tell you an I have favorite an I’m

I'm a responsible mistress down to teach and train a responsible, submissive and understanding malesub to collerd on bdsm lifestyle.
I'm down for hookup if you do care for hookup

For me, happiness doesn't start with an 'h'; it starts with 'u.'

Things that get me excited is someone who obeys and does what they are told at all times be a good boy .

Im a single woman with no partner and very passionate and erotic I enjoy having as much fun as I can and i want to meet the same person

I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, vers. My wife is straight, but 'bi-comfy'. We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., 'single' men on the 'down-low' (or the reverse, for that matter). Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man or a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual. *I AM NOT "GENEROUS"!!*

I'm 26 years old, living in the Dallas region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 21 and 61.

I’m a dom or sub with love for leather and many other kinks

I dream of meeting my soul mate on here . I'm sure when I meet him I'll understand! This lightning of love will pierce our hearts, connecting them! I will give my husband confidence in life, comfort at home.

Single lady ready to mingle with a caring man and also i am looking for a long term relationship which going to lead marriage and more

Active member locations
- Galt California /
- Washington California /
- Lathrop California /
- Los Banos California /
- Madera California /
- Turlock California /
- Coarsegold California /
- Herald California /
- Hanford California /
- Hume California /
- Rancho Cordova California /
- Sanger California /
- Pine Grove California /
- Woodbridge California /
We know what we're doing
You might be forgiven for being overwhelmed by your choices when you look online. There's dating websites everywhere, not to mention personals pages and the seeming unending stream of hook-up mobile apps to contend with. How can you tell which are worth your time? Well, we've lasted a fair while in this area now and have seen what makes our competitors fail.
A lot of our competitors don't get the basics right at all. They use fake profiles to pad their numbers, or are Blasé with your personal details and security, not understanding the importance of it all. We don't agree with that approach, and we believe our longevity and customer service make us stand out from the crowd.
You can be sure that every single person you meet on My Bed or Yours is a real person. Whoever they are, they are just like you. They've come here to have fun and find someone to hook up with. Some will prefer to flirt online or use one to one webcams at first, but there's no pretending to look for relationships, it's all about no-strings attached sex.
Our job is to make sure that you've got a secure and safe place to meet up and make that happen. That's why we have support teams available all week to help out with any issues by phone or email, and if at any time you're unhappy with your membership, you can cancel it with no quibbles or questions asked.
Taking the first steps
It's pretty much guaranteed that we all have a fantasy of a wild no string encounter or inviting someone else to join our partner. But how do you meet someone or bring it up in polite conversation? It's difficult and that's probably why for most people it stays a fantasy.
My Bed helps you turn your fantasies into reality
The first simple step is getting yourself a free account. We give everyone, that wants want one a free (no credit card) account to let them see what we're like. You can then have a look at other people's profiles and even set up your own to start getting some messages.
If you like what you see you can upgrade your account to get access to all of the features to meet even more people. We offer full searching across all of our members profiles so you can find the right people or couples for you, private messages so you don't need to give out any personal details, staff verified profiles so you can be sure about who you're talking to.
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At My Bed or Yours, we prioritize your safety and enjoyment above all else. We understand that in the world of online dating, it's important to feel secure and comfortable. That's why we've taken every step to ensure that your experience with us is both safe and enjoyable.
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We know that authenticity matters. That's why we've implemented a robust member verification system. Our members can rest assured that the profiles they're interacting with are genuine and trustworthy. Whether it's through member approval or other verification methods, you can feel confident connecting with others on our platform.
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