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Im 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region. Rayleigh, UK , 52

I'm 52 years old, living in the Rayleigh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 36 and 77.

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NOT 22 BUT 38!!!! Sweet Dominate woman, ready to explore those fantasies in your.. Colchester, UK , 23

Available for threesome with couples too. Don't come to me with false desire. Serious business only

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Genuine Married Woman x x x x x x xx x x x x x x x x x Romford, UK , 43, 38

Attractive and a concupiscent 39yo married woman, with husband approval seeks person/s for strictly discreet nsa meet up and stimulating fun. When possible, with permission and under no obligation, husband would like to come along and watch.

A slim size 10, I am adventurous, imaginative, energetic and up for most things as long as it is within health and safety std. I've an unashamedly insatiable but healthy desire and like to please in a submissively sort of way. In other words and to put it plainly..I love and enjoy sex.

The other demure traits of me is that I am an easy and outgoing person with a warm and friendly personality and a witty sense of humour.

I am married with a family and work full time. Any arrangement is not going to be easy and it MUST and has to suit me..but it will be worth it (wink, wink). Therefore, long journeys and distances and elaborate planning  will not be suitable.

NO DICK PICTURES PLEASE!!
I DO NOT REPLY TO AUTOMATED MESSAGES.

Thanks.

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Hi I am new on here . I want to meet a new friend and see how it works for us Canvey Island, UK , 47

Hi how are you , My name is Riley . I am single and never never been married . I am honest , sexy , fun and romantic woman

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Im a sado submissive; primarily a submissive but can switch to sadism. I like b.. Chelmsford, UK , 43

I like a strong man that knows what he's doing in bed with a great imagination. He's got a good body, strength and looks to match. He is opinionated and takes thd lead. He is good company, knowledgeable and humorous.

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In love couple looking to fulfil desires. MMF Threesomes are what we are into. L.. Rainham, UK , 41, 41

We are a happy and relaxed couple that enjoy our sex life. We are looking to broaden the horizons a little with a little bit of spice. Looking for a respectable third who can keep within the boundaries while also exploring and having fun. She takes a bit of pleasing so 2 makes it a bit better.Not interested in seedy people.Nice to have a chat and get to know someone. Not too interested in pre written messages, so won’t be responding to anyone using those. Face picture a must also. Just relax and be genuine.

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Limited experience looking for next steps with experienced Dom. Interested more .. Chelmsford, UK , 57

Inexperienced but having recently found myself back on the dating scene, have rediscovered submissive tendencies which have been buried for some years. Sorry but not interested in someone already in a committed relationship however passionless it might be x

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Goddess waiting to drain you like never before Chelmsford, UK , 25

Money excites me and makes me happy, as do gifts and holidays
You doing what i say when i say is top tier

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Hello Just looking for sum safe fun sexual encounters x Dagenham, UK , 47

BBW. 5ft4. Lovely legs.  Beautiful face. Beautiful inside n out. Looking for hook ups. With black or white men

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Hi me and my bf would like to do an MMF combination Woodham Ferrers, UK , 30, 34

A guy who takes care of himself and is confident and open minded I havent done this b4 so a bit nervous but has always been my fantasy to be with 2 guys

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Tbc :-) Never good at describing myself Chelmsford, UK , 31

I am a happy but also insecure person. Need that person.

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Laid back fun and easy loving .... Canvey Island, UK , 51

Seek to explore as much kink as I. Can and with my knowledge of as mistress  lead an adventurous life

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I’d never play hide and seek with you because someone as wonderful as you is inc.. Romford, UK , 29

Want to know who knows the capital of every country in the world? Me.

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I’m very horny and clingy I have a high sex drive and I will love to meet someon.. Benfleet, UK , 40

I warm cool bed with enough cuddling and snuggling when the night gets near

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Im 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region. Chelmsford, UK , 31

I'm 31 years old, living in the Chelmsford region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Krausemarie386 at geemale . Com txt me let’s get to know more about each other Braintree, UK , 42

I'm 42 years old, living in the Braintree region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 64 and 99.

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I’m here to dominate, who wants to be my sub Romford, UK , 27

Come let mistress fulfill your desires , if you’re not prepared to submit then walk on , I’m not looking for time wasters. If you’d like my attention you need to be specific and prove yourself .

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FLR sought me in charge. Into giving S and m at a fet club which you drive us .. Romford, UK , 53

Talk first, the mind is the biggest stimulus. First meet at a munch. Be experienced in taking pain at a fet club  from a whip, canes, poy, flogger.

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We are a couple who want to explore with single males or other couples Basildon, UK , 43, 43

We are a couple who want to meet other couples or single males

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New here and to all this so seeing what it’s all about Southend-on-sea, UK , 50

I love holidays in the sun and being by the sea makes me happy

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I am an attentive lover, always looking to satisfy all of my partner’s needs, so.. Southend-on-sea, UK , 27

I'm 27 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a man aged between 18 and 99.

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Alright I would like us to each other and see where it could lead us too,Because.. Canvey Island, UK , 47

Life is too short for man and woman to live on this earth.

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Im stella and I love meeting new people! Canvey, UK , 25

I'm from canvey,UK  and people say I'm friendly So let's talk xx

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To shine your brightest light is to be who you are Upminster, UK , 25

I'm assertive, l'm the fine line between dominant and submissive, unapologetically myself and honest.
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I am looking for someone who can be not only my lover, but also my best friend, .. Canvey Island, UK , 37

I like new people and new places that is why I am on this one of the best dating sites among the other Ukrainian girls. I appreciate family values very much

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