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LUKE, 56 from Papakura, Auckland

Luke sent you a message: "OH" (8th Apr at 12:12pm) Luke sent you a message: "Hey" (6th Apr at 9:57am) Luke sent you a message: "Hello again!" (4th Apr at 2:01am) Luke sent you a message: "Hi" (31st Mar at 7:19am) Luke winked at you (29th Mar at 2:00am)

KIWICUB, 25 from Auckland, Auckland

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BRIAN, 42 from Burnside, Canterbury

Hi I'm living in chch like to meet someone who likes to be naughty, must be naughty Sorry girls I'm new to this site... do i add pictures off hard cock or not....... so im into all sorts, I like girls with toys and love seeing my lady dressed up , I'm into threesomes, public sex, beach sex or checking into hotel and ducking like rabbitS will do what ever it takes to make you cum. Also just joined box fitness, will have my abs back soon and my energy to fuck like crazy

FLAVIO, 28 from Remuera, Auckland

Libra - Mexican, moved to Auckland, Chef and traveler, love to be fit and energetic. Keen to cook and some other special moves aswell. Knows exotic positions, and last forever in bed, hopefully that wont hurt you... Love true friendship and I have a delightful warm heart for human beings. Spiritual and artist, love to draw and sell canvas every once in while.

SIMON, 29 from Petone, Wellington

Hey I'm an Irish lad living in Wellington and loving it so far! looking for a Kiwi girl for nsa fun; )

STEPHEN, 63 from Papakura, Auckland

Stephen winked at you (2nd Feb at 3:13am)

LOOKING, 33 from New Plymouth, Taranaki

Looking sent you a message: "Obedient" (yesterday at 2:47am) Looking sent you a message: "Role" (yesterday at 2:11am)

HARRY, 25 from Southland

Harry added you as a Favourite (Sunday at 1:38am) Harry winked at you (Sunday at 1:38am) Harry sent you a message: "Hey" (4th Feb at 1:04am) Harry winked at you (4th Feb at 1:03am) Harry winked at you (26th Jan at 1:13am)

FLAVIO, 28 from Remuera, Auckland

Flavio sent you a message: "hola" (today at 2:04am) Flavio winked at you (today at 2:04am)

ROB, 61 from Rolleston, Canterbury

I love life caring a romantic hard working .

TED, 74 from Grafton, Auckland

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CRAIG, 54 from Rotorua, Bay Of Plenty

Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (Sunday at 1:16am) Craig sent you a message: "Profile" (Sunday at 1:14am) Craig sent you a message: "Proflie" (Sunday at 1:13am)

STEVE, 54 from Southland

Steve winked at you (Monday at 4:14am) Steve winked at you (Monday at 1:13am) Steve winked at you (Sunday at 7:45am) Steve sent you a message: "Hi Janes." (Friday at 1:46am) Steve winked at you (Friday at 1:31am)

LONLEYBOY, 43 from North Shore, Auckland

Lonleyboy sent you a message: "I see you viewed me" (10th Apr at 2:13am)

KERRY, 65 from Stratford, Taranaki

Kerry sent you a message: "Hi Jane" (Wednesday at 1:33am)

GUY, 37 from Auckland, Auckland

I like going to nz d and other places maybe can meet somewhere.

JOHN, 49 from Feilding, Manawatu-Wanganui

Life is good just missing you here with me finding all spot i can kiss you and make you moaning with pleasure .what joy that be kissing licking sucking on you're gorgeous body . Have some funq and finder what turns you on . So where do I start

MRMUSO, 36 from Torbay, Auckland

Mrmuso sent you a message: ":)" (today at 1:07am)

MICHAEL, 51 from Auckland, Auckland

Michael winked at you (13th Apr at 7:26pm) Michael sent you a message: "hi sexy" (2nd Apr at 8:22pm) Michael winked at you (2nd Apr at 8:22pm)

UNOY, 39 from Auckland, Auckland

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